I have been thinking about offering prostate massage but I need a guinea pig and my older gentleman client (I'll refer to him as "First" from now on :-) says he has no interest in it. When I massage the perineum area the men seem to reaaalllllly like it and I have read that some men find it very enjoyable. I have gloves and lube but no prostate to massage.
This kind of brings me to my topic, men and their fascination with buttholes. I have no interest in getting anything anywhere near my butthole but some men I have dated in the past seemed to want to attempt to stick their finger in there and for me that is a one way street. I have/had a client who was attempting the same thing while I was massaging him last week. I wear panties/women boy shorts and a lace cami during the massage and I keep them on. I allow some touching within limit and inside the panties is off limits. This guy kept trying to go to no man's land and I kept moving away and he would grab my arm tightly, this happened several times and I eventually just stood still and clenched tightly while I finished jerking him off. In my experience, guys who don’t respect the set boundaries will just keep trying to do more each time you see them. This was his second session with me and he asked if he could come back, he gave me a very generous tip but it won't make up for him ignoring my boundaries and leaving a bruise on my arm. He is now on my "avoid" list.
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