Pushy Bob

When I started doing massage again after my hiatus I placed an ad on craigslist and one of the clients I got was “Bob1.” Right from the onset I did not have a good feeling about him and as soon as I touched him he would grind and moan, my ad stated therapeutic massage only and I was determined that I was not going to allow men like him to bother me this time around so I ignored his behavior. I always used a drape but was never one to avoid massaging the glutes and thighs and he would say that I was teasing because I would not do a happy ending.

He was very generous with tips but also seemed to want to exert some control. Once, after a session he asked about making another appt. for the end of the week at a certain time and I said I wasn’t sure if that time would work and asked him to call me. He called and left a message, asking after that time but I did not get back to him. He showed up anyway and stood outside knocking for a while before finally leaving. During his next appt. he never mentioned showing up here and neither did I.

He always seemed to want to linger around after his massage when I really wanted him to leave. With each appt. he was getting grabbier and after his last session with me he proceeded to grab me and massage my back after I had declined his offer of a massage as I was leading him out the door.

I didn’t hear from him for a while and then he suddenly started calling again and would leave messages about wanting an appt. but I never returned his calls. He would call every time I put up a new ad and sometimes even when I didn’t have an ad up, sometimes it would be a couple of times a week and I kept ignoring the calls hoping he would eventually give up. I think it got to a point where he was calling just to be annoying because I was not taking his calls.

I think he called from another phone pretending to be someone else and made an appt. that was a no show and there have been no more calls from him since then so I hope he has moved on now. I know he has been going to massage parlors for years so he could easily have moved on to the next girl who would be willing to take his money and make him happy. For whatever reason he seemed to think that he could force me to see him again and that will never happen because he gives me the creeps!